As the Autumn months roll in, people start to get excited for Bonfire Night, a time for sparkling fireworks, crackling bonfires, and toffee apples. While this celebration can be exciting and a time to make memories for many, it can also present challenges, especially for our elderly loved ones and those living with dementia. Fireworks can affect them and some practical ways we can prepare and support them during this lively evening.
The Effects of Fireworks on the Elderly and Those with Dementia
For many elderly people, unexpected loud noises can be startling. The sudden bangs and pops of fireworks may produce feelings of anxiety or confusion, particularly for those with dementia, who might not fully understand what’s happening. The flashing lights can be disorienting, and the scent of smoke may trigger panic or feelings of unease.
Additionally, changes in routine can be unsettling. If your loved one is used to a quiet evening at home, the festivities might disrupt their sense of security and comfort. It’s essential to recognise these potential reactions and be proactive in providing support.
Preparing for Bonfire Night
1. Create a Calm Environment
In preparation for bonfire night we recommend keeping your loved one indoors during the height of the fireworks. Create a peaceful space away from the noise—close windows, draw curtains and put on the television to muffle the sounds and block out the flashes of light.
2. Occupy Them with Engaging Activities
While many people are outside enjoying the fireworks, set up calming activities at home can help to distract elderly loved ones who are suffering with confusion. Puzzles, painting, or reading their favourite book can be great distractions.
3. Play Gentle Music or Use Headphones
It may help to keep your loved ones calm by playing soft music or using noise-cancelling headphones to help drown out the sound of fireworks. Choose familiar tunes that they enjoy; music can often have a soothing effect on people with dementia and bring back happy memories.
4. Communicate Openly
If your loved one can understand, explain what Bonfire Night is about and what to expect. Reassure your family member that they are safe and that the noises are just part of a celebration. This can help reduce anxiety and confusion.
5. Stay & Support
Sit with them during the event. Your companionship can provide comfort and reassurance. Share a warm drink or a snack to make the evening feel special, even if the celebrations are happening outside they may enjoy watching from the window.
6. Check In With Neighbours
Check with close neighbours if they plan to let off fireworks or have a bonfire to prepare your loved ones what will happen. This helps to avoid panic and you can make them aware that a fire in the garden is controlled and they do not need to call the fire brigade.
After the Fireworks
Once the fireworks have finished, it can take some time for the atmosphere to calm down a number of people may start their celebrations late in the evening which can mean the noise and lights go on into the night.
Bonfire Night is a time of joy and celebration, but it’s essential to consider the needs of our elderly loved ones and those with dementia. By preparing thoughtfully and creating a supportive environment, we can ensure that everyone enjoys the night in their own way. Let’s celebrate safely and warmly.